Marriage
In this letter I would like to tell you how the Orthodox Church understands marriage and family life. Marriage is not only a social agreement but a holy union, blessed by God, meant to be a path of love and holiness.
Marriage is part of God’s creation. From the beginning, God made man and woman for one another. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). This union is blessed by God, not only for companionship, but also for the raising of children in faith.
Marriage is a holy mystery. Saint Paul writes: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25). The love between husband and wife is meant to reflect Christ’s love for His Church. This is why Orthodoxy calls marriage a sacrament—a sign of God’s grace in human life.
Marriage is lifelong. Jesus taught: “What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder” (Matthew 19:6). The Church sees marriage as a covenant, not just between two people, but with God. It is meant to be faithful, enduring, and filled with mutual support.
Family is a place of faith. The Holy Scriptures call parents to raise children in God’s ways. “Bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4). In the Orthodox Church, the family is often called the “little church,” because it is where prayer, love, and forgiveness are first learned.
Marriage and family are paths to holiness. The purpose of marriage is not only happiness, but holiness. Through patience, forgiveness, and love, husband and wife help each other grow closer to Christ. Children, too, are part of this journey, as they learn to love God and neighbor within the family home.
The Orthodox Church teaches that marriage and family life are blessed by God as a way to live out the Gospel each day. They are places where faith, love, and holiness are nurtured, and where Christ Himself is present.
With love in Christ,
Fr. Charles
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